“In Exile” by Toby Ameson

Toby Ameson (they/them) is a disabled, non-binary transgender American poet and fiction writer. They have a degree in English from the University of California at Irvine. They're very passionate about discussing marginalization in ways that bridge gaps with respect, compassion, and understanding. Their work has appeared on the back covers of graphic novels and in the Young Poets of America anthology.

Author Foreword:

"In Exile" is a piece about my experiences as a transgender person. I've chosen "exile" from the relative safety and protection of societal support in order to reclaim my truth, protect my life, and heal my spirit from the harm of being crushed into the dishonest and damaging role society would force me to play. But, I'm not alone in this exile. I found LGBTQ+ and disabled people online and in-person who have become my chosen family, and I have in turn become a mentor and teacher. Our community faces life-threatening oppression from being denied housing, jobs, and medical care, as well as from threats, abuse, violence, and murder, simply for existing out loud. But, we are a beautiful, natural, and valuable part of human diversity. As a community, we protect and support one another, we help each other heal, and we teach others how to stop perpetuating harm. We shed light on the underlying societal problems that create fear-based prejudices (like institutionalized racism, sexism, ableism, wealth inequality, etc.), and help shift our culture toward becoming something that values and protects all of its people.


 I could go home.

I could return;

to the place where I was made,

to the place where I was made pleasing,

crushed into the shape of someone else’s design;

wings clipped, then bones hammered

so that I could keep my feet on the ground.

 

I could go home and be in exile from my truth,

from my spirit,

from myself,

from who I am meant to be in this life.

But I would be “home.”

 

Sometimes, I think about the life I could have there.

A half-life of cushion and buffer,

of rules and restrictions,

of safety from the cavernous jaws of capitalism.

A half-life of secrets and lies,

of rejection and ridicule and never being enough,

of bare survival and calculated betrayal.

A half-life

without meaning or connection.

 

No.

 

I can never go home.

Instead, I have chosen:

a life of poverty and pain,

a life of terror and struggle,

a life of freedom and truth,

a life of creative self-expression,

a life of passion and purpose and meaning,

a chosen family of people

who live in exile — together.

They too can’t go back

to the home where they were made

and crushed,

and left to die.

 

It is worth it,

to live in poverty and pain,

the terror and the struggle

of living alone and unsupported.

Because we live.

 

We are a people in exile;

a nomadic clan roaming the digital wastelands

who have come together

as survivors,

as healers,

as people who know ourselves,

who fight

to protect the wings of the next generation.

Our community was born of trauma,

of broken wings and severed ties,

of judgment, punishment, and exile.

But it ends here, with us. 

 

Together.


Human Rights Art Festival

Tom Block is a playwright, author of five books, 20-year visual artist and producer of the International Human Rights Art Festival. His plays have been developed and produced at such venues as the Ensemble Studio Theater, HERE Arts Center, Dixon Place, Theater for the New City, IRT Theater, Theater at the 14th Street Y, Athena Theatre Company, Theater Row, A.R.T.-NY and many others.  He was the founding producer of the International Human Rights Art Festival (Dixon Place, NY, 2017), the Amnesty International Human Rights Art Festival (2010) and a Research Fellow at DePaul University (2010). He has spoken about his ideas throughout the United States, Canada, Europe, Turkey and the Middle East. For more information about his work, visit www.tomblock.com.

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